who the #$% do we think we are???

i think some of us are just die hard optimists. we like a person. we notice some flaws. and we decide that the person will change in time.

i think i speak with authority on this matter. you can never, ever, EVER change a person. nobody can do it, unless the person wants to change in the first place. i would also have to agree that intending to change another is unfair in the first place! one should love the other, flaws and all. if you don't like the flaws, then don't be with that person. simple, no?


rite, it's not that simple... somehow, we would want that very person. and we would like to think that the person would love us enough to change for us... sigh. what can i say? die hard optimists we are...