did a survey earlier... i asked women of all ages... which guy would they choose?
option 1 : a guy who loves them more they love the guy, but lack drive and ambition
option 2 : a guy whom they love more than the guy love them, but very driven and ambitious
Conclusion :
1) women age 25 and below goes for option 2
2) women age 30 and above goes for option 1
3) women age 25 - 30 refuse to settle for either options. they want a guy who loves them more and yet are driven and ambitious...
noted that most married women advise to go for option 1... i suppose they should be the wiser ones...?
5 comments:
I'm 27 and I'll go for guy who is driven and ambitious and the one I love him more than he does. Probably I'm not the wiser one.
some may call it die-hard passionate. it's in a way sad when ppl change from passionate to practical..
29 years old, married with 2 beautiful daughters, has taught me this.
1. The man has to love you more (when you are down, when you are pregnant, when you feel fat, when you feel that you are a bad mother, when you feel that you are not doing good enough, when you can't cook, when you can't clean, when you can't change a flat tyre, when you are moody, when the kids cry, when you heal from labour, when you need him to love you more just for the sake of it, and when you feel horny).
2. The woman needs to love the man more when he is stressed with his job,when he is ambitious, when he stresses about if his bonus is enough to take the kids for a holiday in Disneyland, when he stresses about loosing sleep and hair, when he feels fat, when he visits your parents, when he just wanna watch a movie, when he wants the sports channel to be on and most importantly, when he is horny).
Loving him more / him loving you more doesn't have to be OIL and WATER. The pendelum swings towards different ends at different time. Sometimes we want to love more, sometimes we just need to be loved more. That is how a true partnership works.
i m a guy and in my humble opinion, the option below was not included, which would have in a way distorted the findings of the survey.
Option 3: love equally, no need for ambition lah, love conquers all. after all when in love, no need to eat - udara is free.
Cheers
theekit
noted jaimie's wise words... (yet again!) ..she has reminded me that in a r/ship, it's always a cycle. if one loves another, one would treat the other super well.. and in response to that, the other will naturally fall more and more for the former... sincerity is the key, i suppose...
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