Friday, December 23, 2022

my beautiful wonderful crazy girlfriends

it has been 5 years since we last saw each other. and how our topics of interest has changed! so i decided to document this catch up session to see how we have changed come the next catch up...

since we last met, j and cy has given birth to babies, m has gotten married and all 5 of us has survived a pandemic.

as usual, we caught up with each other's lives. what has happened since we last met?

oohh! you are wearing glasses! yes, how all of a sudden, i could not focus on nearby object! sigh, a bane of aging.

how we met cy last week and how yl and cy missed each other by a week! how m missed cy coz she was in lombok. looking across to mount rinjani.

that i am still more into geriatric social media (ie facebook) vs the more current social media (ie. tik tok)

then yl's very fat looking cat which is in fact, just 3kg. A super fluffy cat. and of course yl's girls. 3 gorgeous girls all a little more grown up. and how her hubby actually has hair (nope, he is not bald!)

in the middle of all that talking, the cocktails were topped up and yl would of course need water. sparking the reminiscence of how my mom has always said that i should drink more water like yl does *eye roll

updates on our family.

sleep - the importance of sleep.

i suppose from all our chats this time around, i learnt that it is important to be grateful for what we have. so, practice gratitude. yes, i might need glasses, but i still have my eyesight! 

i got to know m a little better and i realized that we are all alot more similar than we think.

finally, what we resist do persist. i suppose resistance is from a place of fear. we don't like it because we see it in ourselves. we might be trying really hard not to be. but at the same time, some things are in the subconscious. i suppose not fearing it makes sense. because fearing it would mean, we are thinking of it. creating something else to take its place might work better...


Looking forward to the next meet up with my beautiful wonderful crazy girlfriends~