1) when u see him/ her, got spotlight effect. sometimes, angels sing.
2) you never ever want to see him/ her hurt. never want to see an ounce of pain in his/ her eyes.
3) u just like. cannot stop thinking. cannot explain. more than u like urself?
4) heart do a double somersault? and another one and another.... u feel faint?
has anybody actually experienced any of the above?? or any other "signs"? care to share?
of course all these are "at that moment" ler... nothing lasts forever. again, one will never know if it's the best choice. just have to decide, and stick to it. easier said than done? well, yea. that's life. deal with it. maybe the biggest mistake would be to think? can decide by just "feel"? is that wise? would that be a bigger mistake? listen to friends? even more bigger mistake and so "high school"... sigh.
wah... dunno ler. can some of the happy-ever-after ppl shed some light?
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Haiks. James (as in Jaimie Ho) here. Mmmphh... it's raining in SG 5pm Oct 16th. Doing my work halfway suddenly thought of you. So came to here.
So the latest topic that is bugging you if HE is THE ONE?
I may be wrong, actually when you find "THE ONE", it's nothing spectacular. It's like, oh ok. I think I will gamble on this guy, since it's the right place, right time, he is not bad, he has not been in prison, he loves me more, his room is clean, he looks like he can provide good genes to my offspring, he looks like he is stable....
Don't think angel sings, double somersault, etc. If you are looking for clue, forget it. It won't be there.
I've heard of people when they met their ONE, they feel overwhelmed, excited, over the moon, and the minute they layed eye onto each other, they knew they are THE ONE to one another, etc. Well that is great if people actually do experience that!
On my side, have to say it is more like a calculated risk. After all you never really get to know the person until you share the same bed and bathroom for 5 years or more. The love actually grows deeper once the decision to be with him was made from point 0. Subsequently as you walked the difficult path of marriage and parenthood together and have many arguments together, that is when your love grows stronger. For me it's the decision from the start whether to let the person to be in your life or not, then subsequently if you have decided to be with that person, you make it right. It doesn't have to feel right the first time, but once you have decided to give that person a shot, you have to make it right.
Geez, don't think I have answered your question. Mmphh.. time to get back to work.
someone that can pull your feelings up, down, left, right and center like a rubber band. :)
You'll know they are the one when you feel (a) to (b) everytime you see them...well...maybe except for the fainting part. :P
i guess it's when i know that small tiny little things about him that could remind him to myself....not that i'm sure into marrying him but somehow it's just right....
JC
Sounds like you met THE ONE?
Care to Enlighten?
dear ujin, no ler... just a response to terence's blog. if i know, dun have to ask ler. not an expert on this subject matter...
hmmm. i exhibit all the stated symptoms whenever i look at the mirror. how? ......... hehe
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