Tuesday, October 23, 2007
Monday, October 22, 2007
Tuesday, October 16, 2007
how do u know he/ she is "THE ONE"?
1) when u see him/ her, got spotlight effect. sometimes, angels sing.
2) you never ever want to see him/ her hurt. never want to see an ounce of pain in his/ her eyes.
3) u just like. cannot stop thinking. cannot explain. more than u like urself?
4) heart do a double somersault? and another one and another.... u feel faint?
has anybody actually experienced any of the above?? or any other "signs"? care to share?
of course all these are "at that moment" ler... nothing lasts forever. again, one will never know if it's the best choice. just have to decide, and stick to it. easier said than done? well, yea. that's life. deal with it. maybe the biggest mistake would be to think? can decide by just "feel"? is that wise? would that be a bigger mistake? listen to friends? even more bigger mistake and so "high school"... sigh.
wah... dunno ler. can some of the happy-ever-after ppl shed some light?
2) you never ever want to see him/ her hurt. never want to see an ounce of pain in his/ her eyes.
3) u just like. cannot stop thinking. cannot explain. more than u like urself?
4) heart do a double somersault? and another one and another.... u feel faint?
has anybody actually experienced any of the above?? or any other "signs"? care to share?
of course all these are "at that moment" ler... nothing lasts forever. again, one will never know if it's the best choice. just have to decide, and stick to it. easier said than done? well, yea. that's life. deal with it. maybe the biggest mistake would be to think? can decide by just "feel"? is that wise? would that be a bigger mistake? listen to friends? even more bigger mistake and so "high school"... sigh.
wah... dunno ler. can some of the happy-ever-after ppl shed some light?
facebook-ed
i've been facebook-ed. my gmail is flooded. notification list is super long. and i have yet to explore the platform?/ application?/?? anybody wanna shed some light as to what is the whole purpose of this facebook thing? and why would i wanna throw a sheep at my dearest friends?
meanwhile, my blog has been kinda stagnant lately. why? coz i was busy (the past few days anyways). busy with what? life changing experience i suppose. what kinda life changing experience? where do i start...?
first and foremost, got a not too gentle reminder not to take friends for granted. not to treat anybody as plan B or C or Z! oopss... to much negativity. i mean appreciate my friends. to really "be there" body, mind and soul when i am with these bunch of friends.
secondly and thirdly, 2 changes, internal and external, which i shall not elaborate. these should be noticeable once it's completed! even the internal one? the answer is yes.
why the changes? because i suppose it made sense. after an analysis, i do agree with the conclusion that i have been in a protected environment. with friends who are supportive and like me the way i am. and it's not like that out there. other ppl do look at the superficial stuff. and i suppose sometimes, it's not enuf, being good enuf for my friends. should be good enuf for strangers too.
btw, anybody have contacts in canon? wanna get flash. and battery. for EOS 400D. cheap. help!
meanwhile, my blog has been kinda stagnant lately. why? coz i was busy (the past few days anyways). busy with what? life changing experience i suppose. what kinda life changing experience? where do i start...?
first and foremost, got a not too gentle reminder not to take friends for granted. not to treat anybody as plan B or C or Z! oopss... to much negativity. i mean appreciate my friends. to really "be there" body, mind and soul when i am with these bunch of friends.
secondly and thirdly, 2 changes, internal and external, which i shall not elaborate. these should be noticeable once it's completed! even the internal one? the answer is yes.
why the changes? because i suppose it made sense. after an analysis, i do agree with the conclusion that i have been in a protected environment. with friends who are supportive and like me the way i am. and it's not like that out there. other ppl do look at the superficial stuff. and i suppose sometimes, it's not enuf, being good enuf for my friends. should be good enuf for strangers too.
btw, anybody have contacts in canon? wanna get flash. and battery. for EOS 400D. cheap. help!
car for sale
friend of a friend selling car coz going other country for work. if interested, call me! or leave a comment.
Model : Honda City 1.5 VTEC
Year : June 2006
Colour : Silver Metalic
Mileage : 16,000km (approx 34km per day)
Conditions : Tip-top condition, accident free
Selling price : RM70,000 negotiable (Tips : Survey from market with samecar conditions and most of the sellers marking their price > RM70,000)
Others : V-kool tinted glass, balance of 1-year free car service from Honda
Model : Honda City 1.5 VTEC
Year : June 2006
Colour : Silver Metalic
Mileage : 16,000km (approx 34km per day)
Conditions : Tip-top condition, accident free
Selling price : RM70,000 negotiable (Tips : Survey from market with samecar conditions and most of the sellers marking their price > RM70,000)
Others : V-kool tinted glass, balance of 1-year free car service from Honda
Thursday, October 11, 2007
it's 3 am
... and i am sitting in front of my laptop, thinking of something worthy to blog about. but nothing comes to mind. so, i suppose it'll be another crapping post. where i just type whatever comes to mind. and i guess the first thing that appeared was "did i take any of my very good friends for granted recently?"
dictionary.com : "take for granted" = to use, accept, or treat in a careless or indifferent manner
not suprisingly, the answer is yes! unfortunately, i think i did. treat in a careless manner. but what goes around comes around. so, yea, retribution!
anyways, the question is... why does it happen? why do we take ppl for granted? i suppose the most common victims are family members. because they can't not be family members anymore? but that is not true. divorce. disown. death?.
second in the list is probably very good friends. the ones whom you know you can count on. the ones who will never let you down. i guess in a way these friends have been able to provide a sense of security? like they will never ever leave? like they will be just a phone call away. any time, any day. these are the ones who will drop everything and come to your rescue when you are in dire straits. they are also the ones who really like to see you. really enjoy your company. really appreciate your friendship. and these are the ones treated carelessly??? gosh. will not let that happen.
third in the list, i guess, will be people who you think like you?! i suppose if they like you, they tend to tolerate a whole lot of shit? but they can change. they can don't like you. it's totally possible.
isn't it ironic how sometimes, we spend a lot of time on things we know we think are important. and by the time we realise those things are not important, and how little time we spend on things that really matter, we lose those things that really matter.
dictionary.com : "take for granted" = to use, accept, or treat in a careless or indifferent manner
not suprisingly, the answer is yes! unfortunately, i think i did. treat in a careless manner. but what goes around comes around. so, yea, retribution!
anyways, the question is... why does it happen? why do we take ppl for granted? i suppose the most common victims are family members. because they can't not be family members anymore? but that is not true. divorce. disown. death?.
second in the list is probably very good friends. the ones whom you know you can count on. the ones who will never let you down. i guess in a way these friends have been able to provide a sense of security? like they will never ever leave? like they will be just a phone call away. any time, any day. these are the ones who will drop everything and come to your rescue when you are in dire straits. they are also the ones who really like to see you. really enjoy your company. really appreciate your friendship. and these are the ones treated carelessly??? gosh. will not let that happen.
third in the list, i guess, will be people who you think like you?! i suppose if they like you, they tend to tolerate a whole lot of shit? but they can change. they can don't like you. it's totally possible.
isn't it ironic how sometimes, we spend a lot of time on things we know we think are important. and by the time we realise those things are not important, and how little time we spend on things that really matter, we lose those things that really matter.
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