moving forward

moving forward is not as easy sometimes....

when you have seen a side you do not wish to see....

when you cannot un-see what you have seen....

when what you once see as great is really not so....

what can be done? 

again, expectations is the culprit. how do one adjust expectations. how do one eliminate expectations. it seems having expectations is the problem. i think i have a post that says comparison is the problem. but i suppose one can only compare if one has an expectation. all though each and every one of us is different, but if we have the same background, we expect to be comparable. if we are the same age, we expect to be comparable. we find one common factor and all of a sudden, we are comparable. 

then again, who says it cannot be both?

expectations and comparisons are the problems. sorted. 

so, back to moving forward....