sometime in 2010, i have, time and time again, witness that being nice does not work.
but....
i have, in january 2012, had the opportunity to meet somebody who is nice and the epitome of "class" and yet, have not been treated like a doormat... but rather, with respect. what is the secret of his success?
his quiet confidence? his humbleness? his sacrifices? his passion? his lack of ego? his willingness to listen? his willingness to do his part? his trust in you to do yours? his kindness? his generosity?
is it just because he does everything he is suppose to do and more.... so much so you don't think it is an option to fail him?
3 comments:
Have you ever read 'How to win friends and influence people' by dale carngie? (honestly I had to read it for school I don't actually read it because i wanted more friends haha)
In it Carnegie states that being nice is something that will get you far further in life then being cruel. I think that his advice is well heeded.
gud thought...
nice thought
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